Curriculum

  • 1

    Program intake questionnaire

    • Program intake questionnaire

    • Your consent

  • 2

    Module 1 - goals & strategy

    • Your 'why'

    • Your 'why' - discussion

    • Ground rules

    • Ground rules - discussion

    • Creating friendship by meeting unmet needs

    • Creating friendship by meeting unmet needs - discussion

    • Winner's mindset

    • Winner's mindset - discussion

    • Being non-judgmental

    • Being non-judgmental - discussion

    • Taking the lead instead of being a victim

    • Taking the lead instead of being a victim - discussion

    • Stopping the blamer-escaper game

    • Stopping the blamer-escaper game - discussion

    • Balancing masculine-feminine energies

    • Balancing masculine-feminine energies - discussion

    • Meeting partner's emotional needs

    • Meeting partner's emotional needs - discussion

    • Relationship square

    • Relationship square - discussion

    • Love apology & relationship rituals

    • Love apology & relationship rituals - discussion

    • Love apology additional read

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

  • 3

    Module 1 - assignments

    • Assignment 1 - video (taking responsibility & taking lead, instead of thinking & feeling like a victim)

    • Assignment 1 - response

    • Assignment 2 - video (observing the mind when it judges the partner)

    • Assignment 2 - response

    • Assignment 3 - video (noticing & stopping the blamer-escaper game)

    • Assignment 3 - response

    • Assignment 4 - video (owning the partner - thinking from their perspective)

    • Assignment 4 - response

    • Assignment 5 - video (supporting the partner for their core values)

    • Assignment 5 - response

    • Lesson 2 intake questionnaire

  • 4

    Module 2 - empowering the self

    • Action so far & telling the positive changes

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Fear of rejection

    • Fear of rejection - discussion

    • Dealing with the past

    • Dealing with past - discussion

    • Self-love

    • Self-love - discussion

    • Mastering attraction

    • Mastering attraction - discussion

    • Building faith

    • Building faith - discussion

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Change talk (telling the positive changes)

  • 5

    Module 2 - assignments

    • Assignment 6 - video (getting over fear of rejection)

    • Assignment 6 - response

    • Assignment 7 - video (getting over the past)

    • Assignment 7 - response

    • Assignment 8 - video (Stopping the negative thinking)

    • Assignment 8 - response

    • Assignment 9 - video (building self-love)

    • Assignment 9 - response

    • Assignment 10 - video (developing trust in the relationship)

    • Assignment 10 - response

    • Lesson 3 intake questionnaire

  • 6

    Module 3 - learning to talk

    • Action so far & telling the positive changes

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Domination - submission cycle

    • Domination-submission cycle - discussion

    • Fallacies about need fulfillment

    • Fallacies about need fulfillment - discussion

    • Understanding the differences & creating a common world

    • Understanding the differences & creating a common world - discussion

    • Seeing beyond the limited view & creating the complete view

    • Seeing beyond the limited view & creating the complete view - discussion

    • Collaboration tower

    • Collaboration tower - discussion

    • Understanding & sharing needs

    • Understanding & sharing needs - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's needs

    • Knowing your partner's needs - discussion

    • Sharing your needs with your partner

    • Sharing your needs with your partner - discussion

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

    • Change talk (telling the positive changes)

  • 7

    Module 3 - assignments

    • Assignment 11 - video (working on domination & submission)

    • Assignment 11 - response

    • Assignment 12 - video (connection talk)

    • Assignment 12 - response

    • Assignment 13 - video (seeing beyond your limited view to create the complete view)

    • Assignment 13 - response

    • Assignment 14 - video (understanding the deeper needs of your partner & collaborating with them)

    • Assignment 14 - response

    • Assignment 15 - video (asking what you want from your partner)

    • Assignment 15 - response

    • Lesson 4 intake questionnaire

  • 8

    Module 4 - growing as a team

    • Action so far & telling the positive changes

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Understanding relationships in the real world

    • Understanding relationships in the real world - discussion

    • Balancing dependence & independence in the relationship

    • Balancing dependence & independence in the relationship - discussion

    • Listening carefully

    • Listening carefully - discussion

    • Creating a culture of sharing

    • Creating a culture of sharing - discussion

    • Equity in the relationship

    • Equity in the relationship - discussion

    • Giving importance to your partner over other relationships

    • Giving importance to your partner over other relationships - discussion

    • Love apology additional read

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

    • Change talk (telling the positive changes)

    • Connection Talk

  • 9

    Module 4 - assignments

    • Assignment 16 - video (understanding relationships in the real world)

    • Assignment 16 - response

    • Assignment 17 - video (listening to your partner)

    • Assignment 17 - response

    • Assignment 18 - video (creating a culture of sharing)

    • Assignment 18 - response

    • Assignment 19 - video (establishing equity in the relationship )

    • Assignment 19 - response

    • Assignment 20 - video (establishing primacy in the relationship )

    • Assignment 20 - response

    • Lesson 5 intake questionnaire

  • 10

    Module 5 - love concept

    • Action so far & telling the positive changes

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Accepting, cherishing & adapting to the different personality of your partner

    • Accepting, cherishing & adapting to the different personality of your partner - discusion

    • Replacing entitlement with compassion

    • Replacing entitlement with compassion - discussion

    • Working on five components of love

    • Working on five components of love - discussion

    • Creating a shared love concept

    • Creating a shared love concept - discussion

    • Love apology additional read

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

    • Change talk (telling the positive changes)

    • Connection Talk

  • 11

    Module 5 - assignments

    • Assignment 21 - video (accepting, cherishing & adapting to the different personality of your partner)

    • Assignment 21 - response

    • Assignment 22 - video (replacing entitlement with compassion)

    • Assignment 22 - response

    • Assignment 23 - video (working on five components of love)

    • Assignment 23 - response

    • Assignment 24 - video (knowing your partner's concept of love)

    • Assignment 24 - response

    • Assignment 25 - video (Sharing your concept of love with your partner)

    • Assignment 25 - response

    • Lesson 6 intake questionnaire

  • 12

    Module 6 - triggers & responses

    • Action so far

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Identifying your triggers and the fears behind them

    • Identifying your triggers and the fears behind them - discussion

    • Identifying your partner's triggers and the fears behind them

    • Identifying your partner's triggers and the fears behind them - discussion

    • If you play the complainer role

    • If you play the complainer role - discussion

    • If you play the defender role

    • If you play the defender role - discussion

    • Resolving an argument

    • Resolving an argument - discussion

    • Sharing your triggers and asking for support from your partner

    • Sharing your triggers and asking for support from your partner - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's triggers and giving support to your partner

    • Knowing your partner's triggers and giving support to your partner - discusion

    • Changing the habit of reacting to the triggers

    • Changing the habit of reacting to the triggers - discussion

    • Controlling your mind

    • Controlling your mind - discussion

    • Positive-self talk to gain control over the mind

    • Being consistent in your responses

    • Being consistent in your responses - discussion

    • Love apology additional read

    • Appreciation & acknowledgement talk

    • Making your man feel special

    • Making your woman feel special

    • Change talk (telling the positive changes)

    • Connection Talk

  • 13

    Module 6 - assignments

    • Assignment 26 - video (identifying triggers and fears)

    • Assignment 26 - response

    • Assignment 27 - video (stopping the complainer-defender cycle)

    • Assignment 27 - response

    • Assignment 28 - video (developing a new response)

    • Assignment 28 - response

    • Assignment 29 - video (changing the habit of reacting to the triggers)

    • Assignment 29 - response

    • Assignment 30 - video (being consistent in your responses to the triggers)

    • Assignment 30 - response

    • Lesson 7 intake questionnaire

  • 14

    (Optional) Module 7i - intimacy

    • Action so far

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Components of intimacy

    • Components of intimacy - discussion

    • Enhancing emotional intimacy

    • Enhancing emotional intimacy - discussion

    • Becoming attractive

    • Becoming attractive - discussion

    • Building physical intimacy

    • Building physical intimacy - discussion

    • Action steps to enhance intimacy

    • Action steps to enhance intimacy - discussion

    • Sharing your needs regarding intimacy

    • Sharing your needs regarding intimacy - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding intimacy

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding intimacy - discussion

    • Assignment 31i - video (understanding the components of intimacy)

    • Assignment 31i - response

    • Assignment 32i - video (enhancing emotional & physical intimacy)

    • Assignment 32i - response

    • Assignment 33i - video (sharing your needs with your partner regarding intimacy)

    • Assignment 33i - response

    • Assignment 34i - video (addressing your partner's needs regarding intimacy)

    • Assignment 34i - response

    • Assignment 35 - video (conclusion and quick recap)

    • Assignment 35 - response

  • 15

    (Optional) Module 7il - in-laws

    • Action so far

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Understanding the significance of independent family units

    • Understanding the significance of independent family units - discussion

    • Collaboration of the two family units

    • Collaboration of the two family units - discussion

    • Establishing the larger family unit

    • Establishing the larger family unit - discussion

    • Sharing your needs regarding parents and in-laws

    • Sharing your needs regarding parents and in-laws - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding parents and in-laws

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding parents and in-laws - discussion

    • Assignment 31il - video (Understanding the significance of in-laws)

    • Assignment 31il - response

    • Assignment 32il - video (establishing the primacy of your independent unit)

    • Assignment 32il - response

    • Assignment 33il - video (sharing your needs with your partner regarding in-laws)

    • Assignment 33il - response

    • Assignment 34il - video (addressing your partner's needs regarding intimacy)

    • Assignment 34il - response

    • Assignment 35 - video (conclusion and quick recap)

    • Assignment 35 - response

  • 16

    (Optional) Module 7m - money

    • Action so far

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Understanding the different roles of money

    • Understanding the different roles of money - discussion

    • Identifying and addressing the critical financial aspects in the relationship

    • Identifying and addressing the critical financial aspects in the relationship - discussion

    • Sharing your needs regarding finances

    • Sharing your needs regarding finances - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding finances

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding finances - discussion

    • Assignment 31m - video (understanding the different roles of money)

    • Assignment 31m - response

    • Assignment 32m - video (understanding the financial aspects in the relationship)

    • Assignment 32m - response

    • Assignment 33m - video (sharing your needs with your partner regarding money)

    • Assignment 33m - response

    • Assignment 34m - video (addressing your partner's needs regarding money)

    • Assignment 34m - response

    • Assignment 35 - video (conclusion and quick recap)

    • Assignment 35 - response

  • 17

    (Optional) Module 7p - parenting

    • Action so far

    • Actions so far - discussion

    • Understanding the significance of teamwork in parenting

    • Understanding the significance of teamwork in parenting - discussion

    • Creating an understanding of the role of a parent

    • Creating an understanding of the role of a parent - discussion

    • Sharing your needs regarding parenting of your child

    • Sharing your needs regarding parenting of your child - discussion

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding parenting of your child

    • Knowing your partner's needs regarding parenting of your child - discussion

    • Assignment 31p - video (understanding the significance of teamwork in parenting)

    • Assignment 31p - response

    • Assignment 32p - video (creating a shared understanding of the role of a parent)

    • Assignment 32p - response

    • Assignment 33p - video (sharing your needs with your partner regarding parenting)

    • Assignment 33p - response

    • Assignment 34p - video (addressing your partner's needs regarding parenting)

    • Assignment 34p - response

    • Assignment 35 - video (conclusion and quick recap)

    • Assignment 35 - response